Everyone, stop what you’re doing.
A new oral sex move has been discovered and it is said to make you hit that mighty fine big-o in less than three minutes.
Is it April Fools? Am I pranking you? Absolutely not sista. This is the real deal.
When scrolling the web for proof women come from oral sex irl the same way they do in books or movies, I came across this baby and it’s too good not to share.
Dubbed the “Kivin method”, it all originated when some bloke on Reddit said he was feeling a bit sub-par because he couldn’t make his absolute angel of a wife see stars during sexy time.
That is until he changed up his approach.
So, if you love a bit of head from your partner but can’t manage to cross the finish line, or simply want to try something new, buckle in.
What is the Kivin method?
It puts the original method of oral sex on its side - literally.
Created to be an exciting new way of performing cunnilingus, this method is all about taking things from the side and making use of that hand/mouth combo.
It’s so good it even earned itself a how-to guide on MasterClass.
How to do the Kivin method
1. Get comfortable. Lie on your bed, the couch, have a saucy make out sesh with your boo thang first, a candid discussion, whatever helps you relax.
2. Lie on your back and have your partner sit/lay/chill to the side of you instead of in between your legs. Bend one leg up to give your partner fuller access.
3. Have your partner place their index finger and thumb on either side of your clitoris to raise and steady it.
4. Have your partner use their tongue to lick your vulva as they usually would when they are giving head. For you, this feels like their tongue is moving from side to side instead of up and down.
The magic of it? It stimulates a wider area of your downstairs bestie and almost mimics the movements you make with your hand during spicy self love time.
5. If you want further stimulation, have your partner put their magic fingers to great use or add your fav sex toy.
Tips from people who have tried it
In all honesty, it took me a while to imagine how this position actually works. It sounds like a human pretzel situation and I haven’t done nearly enough yoga for that.
Thankfully, it’s not a yoga-like move, it’s actually a lazy human L shape.
According to someone who has done this move, a way to make the position more o-worthy is by having the giver lie on their stomach at a 90 degree angle. The receiver then places their leg on the giver’s back, get down to business and hurrah, you’re in your big-O era.
Another thing to consider is each side of your clitoris has different sensitivity levels so have a play with what side feels better.
Anything else?
Although the verdict about this move is almost unbelievably positive, like any sex position, it won’t work for everyone.
There are plenty of factors when it comes to having a big-O including being relaxed, comfortable and acknowledging that every body responds differently to different types of stimulation.
But as long as you go into it with an open mind, even if it doesn’t work it can still start a conversation about experimenting with your partner.
Good luck you big-O chasing queens.
- By Lillie Rohan